Sophia Bush On Being Queer, Relationship With Ashlyn Harris
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"I felt mounting pressure from strangers online waiting for me to post something — what a strange part of public life to have to navigate — so I sat myself down and chose a picture," Sophia wrote, detailing how she felt pressure to post something for their one-year anniversary. She added, "I hit post. And then I walked into the bathroom and threw up."
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"For those of us who had no solution in sight or Hail Marys left, having this community changed everything. We really wrapped one another up in support. It was tragic and hard. But it was also beautiful," she wrote.
One of whom was former US soccer player Ashlyn Harris. Sophia tells Glamour, "I didn’t expect to find love in this support system. I don’t know how else to say it other than: I didn't see it until I saw it."
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"People looking in from the outside weren't privy to just how much time it took, how many painful conversations were had," Sophia said while detailing how her friendship with Ashlyn turned into something more. "A lot of effort was made to be graceful with other people's processing, their time and obligations, and their feelings."
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Sophia writes that Ashlyn was "in the process of figuring out her own split from her wife." Ashlyn's divorce from her wife and former US soccer player Ali Krieger became public in late 2023, with cheating rumors swirling as Sophia and Ashlyn were spotted out together, too.
In an interview with SELF magazine, Ali said she found out Ashlyn had filed for divorce while she was at soccer practice, saying, "I found out at training. I was on the field. And I came off the field, in the locker room, and I was obviously devastated."
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She continued, saying, "I finally feel like I can breathe. I don't think I can explain how profound that is. I feel like I was wearing a weighted vest for who knows how long. I hadn't realized how heavy it was until I finally just put it down."
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